I’ve been running into a lot of life’s little (shitty) roadblocks lately.
And it makes me want to punch walls.
1. A crappy hotel that I paid far too much money for.
2. The inability to get a changed paasport through my husband’s job (its a long story that’s too complicated to explain).
3. $2000 in vet bills so that I can take my dogs to south africa. Plus $4700 to move the dogs. (Yes, I know I made the choice to go to South Africa in the name of love and family but I can still internally freak out about the cost).
4. The lab estimating the amount of blood they needed wrong after I left Virginia to come to North Carolina. So I had to call several vets to see who could do this barrage of tests only to be met with confusion.
4. Continued uncertainty about life after next May.
This makes me, clearly, miserable to be around.
As such, I went for a walk this evening and ended up trudging nine miles to work myself out.
Unfortunately, now I’m still awake at midnight. But at least I’m less angry.
Cheers to all the people out there trying to work shit out when life sledgehammers your plans into a billion pieces.
I am trying to ship my dogs to South Africa and let me just say shipping dogs is still a pain in the ass.
However, its not a pain in the ass because its difficult. Its a pain in the ass, because I keep talking to people who know nothing about dog shipping or think I know nothing about it which is fair. I know many companies deal with people that have no idea how to ship dogs, but I’ve done this three times. Its not my first rodeo.
As I have to use a pet shipper to import my dofs to south africa and a cargo company to fly my dogs, I have spent much of the last month talking to people about my dogs. The person I am using to import my dogs to south africa is great. He clearly does this all the time and is an expert which is why I am happy to give him all my mineu. However, trying to get my dogs out of Moldova and in the air is proving difficult. Yesterday, a company told me that they could only fly my dogs out of moldova one way through Romania which would have been ok if they were willing to work with me on driving the dogs to the airport in Romania, but they were like no we can’t do that. I know it’s difficult because we have small planes in Moldova – but I know that there’s more than one way to move animals.
Any company that says there is just one way to get dogs out of a country is usually wrong. Maybe not, but they are wrong in this case and it irritated me. Now that I think about it, maybe it’s not really their wrongness as much as their inability to look at this problem from a different perspective. That’s usually something that bothers me about having to pay someone for something I know I can figure out but I need them to do something simple like book a ticket.
But, I think I finally found a company through Turkish cargo that will give me the flight stuff I need to get the dogs there.
All in the name of love. And family. And trying to get back to this guy.
I am reminded someone who once told me, “you can have anything you want, but that doesn’t mean it will be easy.”